John Desing csc –
Readings: Phil 2: 1-4; Lk 14: 12-14
The readings of today tell us to be watchful of empty words and selfish deeds. We need to be very conscious of the motive behind the acts of charity. Though it might be an act of charity there could be an element of a selfish motive of expecting something in return.
By nature, we all are selfish. However, Jesus reminds us today that the element of self-giving or putting others first is possible for all who have understood that our lives are meant to be shared and broken for others. When Jesus said ‘Go and do the same’ Jesus, who broke himself for us, invited us to do the same. As far as ‘giving’ is concerned we have three categories of people.
Firstly, there are those who always want to receive. Secondly, there are those who give with an intention of reciprocity. Thirdly, there are those who simply give without expecting anything in return. In our institutions and relationships, we experience people who appeared to be generous with their contributions provided their names are written on the wall. Can we be generous yet anonymous?
Perhaps when we have the realization like the psalmist who says, ‘how can I repay the Lord for all his goodness to me?’, we will become more generous and loving, realizing that the lesser the expectation we have, the happier we become. When God forgives us unconditionally and gives us graciously why should we remain selfish?